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Social anxiety therapy for kids, teens, & young adults

Evidence-based therapy that helps kids connect with confidence.

Support for social phobia, fear of judgment, and social avoidance in children, teens, and young adults.

Insurance accepted. Appointments often available within days.

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Social anxiety, at a glance

5-10%

of children and teens meet criteria for social anxiety disorder

Ages 8-15

is the typical age of onset for social anxiety

75%

of youth with social anxiety respond well to CBT

Understanding social anxiety

When shyness becomes something more.

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Social anxiety disorder goes beyond ordinary shyness. It is a persistent fear of social situations where a child feels they will be judged, embarrassed, or humiliated. It can significantly limit friendships, school participation, and daily functioning.

A licensed clinician distinguishes between normal developmental shyness and clinical social anxiety by evaluating the severity, duration, and impact on your child's daily life.

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Fear of judgment

Intense worry about being embarrassed, rejected, or negatively evaluated in social situations.

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Social avoidance

Avoiding parties, group activities, or speaking in class to escape anxiety.

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Physical symptoms

Blushing, sweating, trembling, nausea, or racing heart in social settings.

Common signs of social anxiety by age

Symptoms look different at every stage of development.

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  • Young Children (4-7)

    Refusing to speak to adults

    Hiding behind parents

    Crying before social events

    Difficulty with unfamiliar children

  • School-Age (8–12)

    Avoiding answering questions in class

    Eating alone at lunch

    Dreading group projects

    Few or no close friendships

  • Teens (13-17)

    Skipping school for social reasons

    Refusing to attend parties

    Intense fear of embarrassment

    Physical symptoms: blushing, trembling

  • Young Adults (18-25)

    Avoiding job interviews

    Difficulty in college classes

    Social isolation despite wanting connection

    Using avoidance as primary coping strategy

Could it be social anxiety?

Take a quick, clinically validated screening to better understand your child's symptoms.

GAD-7 Anxiety Screening

The GAD-7 is a brief, clinically validated tool used by healthcare providers to screen for generalized anxiety disorder. It takes about 2 minutes and can help you understand whether your child's symptoms may benefit from professional support.

This screening is not a diagnosis. A licensed clinician reviews the results and recommends next steps.

Take the GAD-7 Screening
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How social anxiety therapy helps

Evidence-based strategies for building social confidence and reducing avoidance.

  • Challenges negative thoughts about social situations
  • Builds confidence through gradual social exposure
  • Develops assertiveness and conversation skills
  • Manages physical anxiety symptoms
  • Supports healthy friendship development
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Why families choose Emora

Specialized pediatric anxiety care vs. general providers.

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Other providers

Licensed pediatric and young adult clinicians

Generalist providers

Evidence-based CBT and exposure therapy

One-size-fits-all approaches

Parent-inclusive therapy model

Limited parent involvement

Virtual sessions reduce initial social anxiety barriers

In-person visits that intensify social fear

Insurance accepted

Insurance not always accepted

Built-in screening and progress tracking

Limited progress visibility

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Get started in minutes

Three simple steps to connect with the right clinician.

  • 1

    Share what's going on

    Answer a few questions about symptoms and goals.

  • 2

    Verify coverage

    See insurance estimates and available times.

  • 3

    Start sessions

    Meet your clinician and begin building skills.

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Frequently asked questions

What parents and young adults ask most about social anxiety therapy.

Real stories of growth

Every session is rated by parents. Our therapists maintain a 4.9+ average, because results matter.

She make my daughter feel exelente

Parent of a 13 year old

1 hour ago

Morgan Tulley
Provider:

Morgan Tulley, RCSWI

Very happy with Ms Tamika! My daughter looks forward to talking with her every week.

Parent of an 8 year old

13 hours ago

Tamika Brown
Provider:

Tamika Brown, LPC

The coping skills exercise was very helpful

Parent of a 12 year old

13 hours ago

Shantel Rayford
Provider:

Shantel Rayford, LPC

She was excellent with my daughter and made her feel very comfortable for her first appointment. She was very nervous but opened up a lot with her.

Parent of a 6 year old

14 hours ago

Maygen Hicks
Provider:

Maygen Hicks, LCSW

My child felt comfortable the first visit. This is great news because she has tried plenty of counselors and therapist's.

Parent of a 13 year old

14 hours ago

Lillian Tinsley
Provider:

Lillian Tinsley, RMCHI

We are so happy with Harper’s care. It feels thorough and well-planned.

Parent of a 13 year old

14 hours ago

Leah Medina
Provider:

Leah Medina, PMHNP, FNP

We love emora health. Ms. Jerome-Saintil is an amazing listener. She really tries to engage my child in the activities they are doing in their session. I'm hopeful that my child will take real life lessons from her.

Parent of a 10 year old

15 hours ago

Magdala Jerome-Saintil
Provider:

Magdala Jerome-Saintil, LMHC

I think she will be very helpful with Harper. She was super kind

Parent of a 7 year old

15 hours ago

Nelda Hunt
Provider:

Nelda Hunt, LSW

Fabulous! Dr. Nitsch cares and is making a difference!

Parent of a 10 year old

15 hours ago

Dr. Liz Nitsch
Provider:

Dr. Liz Nitsch, PsyD

she was so patient kind and took her time to understand my son and his thoughts n thought process she was excellent

Parent of a 17 year old

15 hours ago

Lisa Raigeluw
Provider:

Lisa Raigeluw, LCSW

The session was fun! We read a story and did a worksheet activity! We talked about triggers and how anger can start. Chely is a great therapist! I would definitely recommend her! - From the 11 year old child

Parent of an 11 year old

16 hours ago

Chely Craig
Provider:

Chely Craig, LCSW-A

My son is very excited to begin!

Parent of a 7 year old

17 hours ago

Katherine Vasquez Lugo
Provider:

Katherine Vasquez Lugo, RMHCI

She listens very well and has help me in her sessions.

Parent of a 15 year old

17 hours ago

Leah Malloy
Provider:

Leah Malloy, LPC-A

She ought to understand what I was asking and looking for and provided it, which was mostly listening. And I found her insight about grief and grieving very helpful.

An Adult client

18 hours ago

Sandra Serna
Provider:

Sandra Serna, LPC

Helped me find the perfect therapist!

Parent of a 13 year old

18 hours ago

Jennifer Clark
Provider:

Jennifer Clark, LCSW

She was super sweet and I can feel the improvement already. Made her feel cared for.

Parent of a 13 year old

18 hours ago

Shemise Michael
Provider:

Shemise Michael, LPC

I came to Carrie with deep concerns about the aggression and violent episodes that have been really negatively impacting my other children so much so that one of my sons is so scared of his brother he has been staying at my parents house. She took it very seriously and started us on a new medication immediately. She really cares about the well being of the whole family not just her patient.

Parent of an 8 year old

20 hours ago

Carrie Colson
Provider:

Carrie Colson, PMHNP

Stephanie knows how to guide us with our teenager and our teenager enjoyed her talks very much. Wonderful addition she is to have her!

Parent of a 12 year old

1 day ago

Stephanie Rodriguez
Provider:

Stephanie Rodriguez, LPC-A

Social anxiety does not define your child

Structured, developmentally informed therapy can help build skills that last.

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