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ODD therapy for kids, teens, & young adults

Specialized therapy that addresses the root causes of oppositional behavior.

Support for persistent defiance, emotional outbursts, and family conflict.

Insurance accepted. Appointments often available within days.

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ODD, at a glance

3.3%

About 3.3% of children and adolescents are diagnosed with ODD.

Often co-occurs

Many children with ODD also meet criteria for ADHD, anxiety, or depression.

Highly treatable

Children who receive evidence-based treatment show significant symptom reduction.

Understanding ODD

What ODD looks like and how it affects daily life.

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Oppositional Defiant Disorder involves persistent patterns of angry mood, argumentative behavior, and defiance that significantly exceed what is typical for a child's age.

ODD is driven by genuine difficulty with emotional regulation and frustration tolerance, not willful misbehavior. A clinician evaluates patterns and considers co-occurring conditions.

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More than defiance

ODD reflects real difficulty with emotional regulation, cognitive flexibility, and frustration tolerance.

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Breaking the cycle

Therapy interrupts negative conflict cycles between parent and child, building cooperation instead.

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Family-centered care

Parent training is essential. We equip families with strategies that reduce conflict and rebuild connection.

Common signs of ODD by age

Symptoms look different at every stage of development.

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  • Young Children (4-7)

    Frequent tantrums

    Refuses to follow rules

    Deliberately annoys others

    Blames others for mistakes

  • School-Age (8-12)

    Argues with adults constantly

    Defies authority at school

    Easily frustrated

    Vindictive behavior

  • Teens (13-17)

    Hostile toward authority

    Refuses household responsibilities

    Angry outbursts

    Peer and school conflict

  • Young Adults (18-25)

    Workplace authority conflicts

    Relationship difficulties

    Chronic irritability

    Difficulty accepting feedback

How ODD therapy helps

Evidence-based strategies for emotional regulation, cooperation, and family harmony.

  • Builds emotional regulation skills
  • Teaches conflict resolution strategies
  • Reduces oppositional and defiant behaviors
  • Strengthens parent-child relationship
  • Improves school and social functioning
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Why families choose Emora

Specialized pediatric ODD care vs. general providers.

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Other providers

Licensed pediatric and young adult clinicians

Generalist providers

Evidence-based parent management training

Programs not tailored to behavioral disorders

Parent-inclusive model

Limited parent involvement

Addresses co-occurring ADHD and anxiety

Co-occurring conditions often missed

Insurance accepted

Insurance not always accepted

Virtual sessions reduce power struggles

In-office visits can escalate behaviors

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Get started in minutes

Three simple steps to connect with the right clinician.

  • 1

    Share what’s going on

    Answer a few questions about symptoms and goals.

  • 2

    Verify coverage

    See insurance estimates and available times.

  • 3

    Start sessions

    Meet your clinician and begin building skills.

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Frequently asked questions

What parents and young adults ask most about ODD therapy.

All children push boundaries — it's part of growing up. ODD is different because the defiance is persistent (lasting 6 months or more), significantly more intense than what's typical for your child's age, and interferes with daily life at home, school, or with peers.

No. You don't need a formal ODD diagnosis to get started. Our specialists can evaluate your child's behavior patterns during the initial sessions and recommend the best treatment approach.

Most families see meaningful improvement within 12–16 sessions, especially when parent training is part of the plan. The timeline depends on your child's specific needs and how consistently strategies are practiced at home.

Yes — parent involvement is one of the most important factors in treating ODD. You'll participate in parent training sessions, receive regular updates, and learn strategies that make a real difference at home.

Yes, we accept most major insurance plans. We verify your coverage before your first appointment, and most families pay between $0 and $30 per session.

About 50% of children with ODD also have ADHD. Our therapists are experienced in treating both conditions together, creating integrated treatment plans that address attention, impulse control, and behavioral challenges simultaneously.

Yes. Research shows that 67% of children with ODD improve significantly with evidence-based treatment. The key is addressing the underlying emotional and skill deficits — not just the surface behavior.

Real stories of growth

Every session is rated by parents. Our therapists maintain a 4.9+ average, because results matter.

She make my daughter feel exelente

Parent of a 13 year old

1 hour ago

Morgan Tulley
Provider:

Morgan Tulley, RCSWI

Very happy with Ms Tamika! My daughter looks forward to talking with her every week.

Parent of an 8 year old

13 hours ago

Tamika Brown
Provider:

Tamika Brown, LPC

The coping skills exercise was very helpful

Parent of a 12 year old

13 hours ago

Shantel Rayford
Provider:

Shantel Rayford, LPC

She was excellent with my daughter and made her feel very comfortable for her first appointment. She was very nervous but opened up a lot with her.

Parent of a 6 year old

14 hours ago

Maygen Hicks
Provider:

Maygen Hicks, LCSW

My child felt comfortable the first visit. This is great news because she has tried plenty of counselors and therapist's.

Parent of a 13 year old

14 hours ago

Lillian Tinsley
Provider:

Lillian Tinsley, RMCHI

We are so happy with Harper’s care. It feels thorough and well-planned.

Parent of a 13 year old

14 hours ago

Leah Medina
Provider:

Leah Medina, PMHNP, FNP

We love emora health. Ms. Jerome-Saintil is an amazing listener. She really tries to engage my child in the activities they are doing in their session. I'm hopeful that my child will take real life lessons from her.

Parent of a 10 year old

15 hours ago

Magdala Jerome-Saintil
Provider:

Magdala Jerome-Saintil, LMHC

I think she will be very helpful with Harper. She was super kind

Parent of a 7 year old

15 hours ago

Nelda Hunt
Provider:

Nelda Hunt, LSW

Fabulous! Dr. Nitsch cares and is making a difference!

Parent of a 10 year old

15 hours ago

Dr. Liz Nitsch
Provider:

Dr. Liz Nitsch, PsyD

she was so patient kind and took her time to understand my son and his thoughts n thought process she was excellent

Parent of a 17 year old

15 hours ago

Lisa Raigeluw
Provider:

Lisa Raigeluw, LCSW

The session was fun! We read a story and did a worksheet activity! We talked about triggers and how anger can start. Chely is a great therapist! I would definitely recommend her! - From the 11 year old child

Parent of an 11 year old

16 hours ago

Chely Craig
Provider:

Chely Craig, LCSW-A

My son is very excited to begin!

Parent of a 7 year old

17 hours ago

Katherine Vasquez Lugo
Provider:

Katherine Vasquez Lugo, RMHCI

She listens very well and has help me in her sessions.

Parent of a 15 year old

17 hours ago

Leah Malloy
Provider:

Leah Malloy, LPC-A

She ought to understand what I was asking and looking for and provided it, which was mostly listening. And I found her insight about grief and grieving very helpful.

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18 hours ago

Sandra Serna
Provider:

Sandra Serna, LPC

Helped me find the perfect therapist!

Parent of a 13 year old

18 hours ago

Jennifer Clark
Provider:

Jennifer Clark, LCSW

She was super sweet and I can feel the improvement already. Made her feel cared for.

Parent of a 13 year old

18 hours ago

Shemise Michael
Provider:

Shemise Michael, LPC

I came to Carrie with deep concerns about the aggression and violent episodes that have been really negatively impacting my other children so much so that one of my sons is so scared of his brother he has been staying at my parents house. She took it very seriously and started us on a new medication immediately. She really cares about the well being of the whole family not just her patient.

Parent of an 8 year old

20 hours ago

Carrie Colson
Provider:

Carrie Colson, PMHNP

Stephanie knows how to guide us with our teenager and our teenager enjoyed her talks very much. Wonderful addition she is to have her!

Parent of a 12 year old

1 day ago

Stephanie Rodriguez
Provider:

Stephanie Rodriguez, LPC-A

ODD does not define your child

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